I want to learn how to squirt 😩 any tips?

So I’ve been wanting to teach myself how to squirt, and most of the things say play with yourself first so I’m aware of my own body and what I like and don’t etc, this isn’t a problem other than if I try to put my finger inside me it hurts, I can only make myself cum by clit stimulation.. if my husband is playing with me it’s a different story, his finger (sometimes 2!) go in perfectly fine, but mine don’t??? 🤨

Anyway, I’m wondering if anyone knows any good tips/tricks that instead of just me teaching/and or learning my body on how to get to this, is there something my partner and I can do together??

the following questions maybe a bit intrusive but if ANYONE could answer them I’d be so thankful!! 😂🤦🏻‍♀️

1 - how do you get yourself to squirt?

2- how does your partner get you to squirt?

Thank you in advance xxx