Can herpes affect your perineum?

I believe I have herpes, I’m waiting for test results but I’m starting to get these pimple looking things on my vagina I’m not sure if their sores and they sting when pee gets on them but my other issue is my perineum, I have never been in such pain, it’s swollen and it seems like there’s a huge sore under the skin and I can see some cracking or tearing in that area also. It’s even affecting my anus. I went to the restroom and when I pushed I almost fainted from how bad the pain was after pooping. Does this sound close to herpes or does this sound familiar to anyone? Any help is appreciated