I waited almost 20 years to be able to have sex because I didn't have a husband. I got married a year and a half ago and my husband avoids sex everytime he can. He always says that there are more important things than sex.

I am young and health and I was looking forward to be able to have sex, he made me believe we had the same sex drive and he didn't want to talk about it so he wouldn't get tempted, we even shorten the courtship so we didn't risk temptation. I feel frustrated all the time and tired of begging. I feel cheated, I waited to have sex only to not be able to have it. I don't know what to do.