Doctor issues

Rant time! Im married and the past few months with out sex lives have been kinda awful. I’m 21!and health overall after having slight kidney failure the past two years(that’s since been resolved bc of my wonderful urologist) I’m completely convinced there’s something wrong with my body. You shouldn’t feel like passing out and throwing up anytime you have sex.(aka what happened again today where I had to sit down in the shower) It shouldn’t fucking hurt all the time when you know it’s what you want. IM SO OVER IT. We freaking do everything right. But apparently my gynecologist now thinks it’s normal. Because I’ve told her about it like 6 times now. BUT ITS NOT. Everything was fine until about 6 months ago. I typically dread having sex unless I initiate it(even then it hurts) There’s been something wrong for months and she doesn’t take it seriously. That being said I’m making a NEW appointment with one of the best obgyns(who saved my aunts life) after this shit. First off I have abnormal Pap smears two now in the past 6 months and she still won’t address that. Even tho cervical and uterine cancer run in my family. She refuses to do further testing. She says it’s fine. Abnormal bleeding and cramps all though the month? She says it’s fine. IM UNCOMFORTABLE 24/7 AND SHE THINKS ITS NORMAL OR IM OVERREACTING. WHY WONT SHE TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY!!!! Not to mention constant BV infections the coarse me pain all she does it give me more antibiotics without a visit. My new doctor will call me back with an appointment and he’s already told me he’ll figure out my problem. And that’s why I’m excited(even though last doctors still scare me) 😂 I’m tired of people not taking my heath as serious as I do. I want to be normal. I want to have the sex life with my husband that we had when we first got together. It’s taking a toll on both of us. I normally have a super high sex dive to match his. He never pressures me and always makes sure I’m comfortable m. If I tell him to stop even in the middle of sex he will. He’ll usually go shower to finish it by himself but I feel awful because she won’t take me seriously. I live sexy but lately it’s been awful.! We use lube, we take thing slow we do everything they’ve recommended but it’s not working. I hate this.