So this is my first real relationship so forgive me if I’m making a big deal of it.

We have been together for 6 months, and have been pretty happy.

The last 2 months we could see eachother, his family was on lockdown as they take care of his grand parents.

Earlier this month he moved out and started working construction, so he’s been busy.

Not seeing eachother has been hard so I told my mom.

Sunday I was finally able to see him and we went fishing. We had a great time, talked about some issues, and I felt it went really great.

However, when he dropped me off at my parents truck, my dad got out and talked to him. I was horrified as I’m almost 22 and he just turned 20.

My dad just wanted to make sure we were on the same page and he told my dad he still loved me.

But now he wants his clothes back. It’s two sweatshirts, two old button ups.

He was gonna get them back before lockdown anyway, but the fact he’s like “I want them back this week, I’m coming up Wednesday to get them” and hes been making a deal about him making the 40 min drive to see me has me worried.

Is this normal? Or should I be prepared for the worst?

*ill be updating later

*he has a history of saying one thing and meaning another, and since he asked for them, Sunday night, he’s been asking if I’m okay.

UPDATE:

So not much new, he’s coming by tomorrow. My mom isn’t really worried. I’m trying not to be either. He keeps bringing it up. My moms gonna make sure we are alone when he comes over and I’m prepared for whatever comes. Hopefully nothing bad 😅

My parents don’t normally interfere, but I my mom knows how much I care for him and wants nothing less than Prince Charming for me, I’m other words, she’s crazy 😅

Anyway I will update tomorrow night

UPDATE:

He dumped me

UPDATE:

So what happened was his new job is gonna have him moving around a lot possibly and he needs to figure his future out. He still cares about me and after he figures it all out we can try again. He also hugged me cause I cried and made sure I was okay before he left. Later that day I texted him letting him know that even though we are broken up I’m still here for him, as he has a hard time opening up to people and has home issues. And he told me he would be here as well.

Then this morning I wake up to a good morning text from him. Not morning “good morning”

Along with him saying thinking you for his painting I made him, “I really love it”