If a man gets a dna test for a child he thought was his for 2 years & he wasn’t the father... should he be wrong to walk out of that child’s life?

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Babymomma cheated and knew he wasn’t the dad. Just played it out and lied. She’s demanding this and that from the dude and blaming him. He wants to be done because it’s not his child and she’s not even remorseful. Whorls he be wrong for leaving

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Not his kid, not his responsibility.

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The child is 2 it will definitely recover. However the man will always know what happened and have a hard time trusting not only women but even the person he has children with in the future.

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Definitely not wrong, the man is as much a victim as the child is.  But if he is close with the child, it would be very kind for the child’s sake, if he was able to maintain some kind of relationship.  If he can’t though, that’s ok too.

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How tf is he wrong for not wanting to leave if a child is not his. Some men can’t recover mental from this. Everyday looking at a child that’s not theirs and dealing with a female acting like he owes her something. Some ppl aren’t shit.. he has EVERY right to leave.

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It’s not wrong but I feel bad for the child. I have a two year old and he’s so attached to his dad! What a sticky situation.

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If he walks out I could understand it. But he never really loved the kid then, was just there because it was his genetically.

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He is allowed to leave, yes.
I would look into local laws though. Assuming the father stepped into a parental position, some courts will deem him "the father" and require child support. It can get sticky VERY fast for the guy should she go after him legally.
Hopefully though, he won't have any ties or legal reason to support the child (should he not want to).
Can't say what the situation would be like outside of North America though. Check your local laws!

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My brothers first baby momma did this. It was a little different though. She had another guy paying her child support and when they finally did the dna test on my brother, which was the fifth dna test, they finally knew it was his. My niece didn’t look no where close to the guy who was paying her child support, but she was just after the money, since the guys she was messing with were oilfield workers. After the test and while in court, she asked the judge for my brother to pay her back child support included to what he will be paying. The judge told her something along the lines of “It’s been two years and we just now found out who the father for your child is. You had two other guys paying child support for you and you want him to give you more money. We tested a handful just to find out he is this girls father. You need to do your part just as he will be doing his.” 
That was two years ago and she still causes so much drama, but I’m extremely thankful that I have a niece and see her when she lets my brother have her.

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Its not his child. The bio dad should have the chance to raise his child. It could be confusing to have one man raise him and then another step in and also raise him. And why if she marries. Then the child would have 3 dads. At least at this age he is so little he won't remember him. But if he wants to walk away he has that right.

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It would absolutely not be wrong. The bm should feel horrible for making the man build a relationship with a child that was never his. I would think it would be hard for the man to walk away even with knowing it isnt his child just bc he spent two years treating the child as his own.

If a man gets a dna test for a child he thought was his for 2 years & he wasn’t the father... should he be wrong to walk out of that child’s life?

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