I have been really confused for the past few months on whether or not I am asexual. I must have gone on every single site and done dozens of quizzes. Every time I think about it I just want to break down crying out of confusion and desperation. Whenever I look at people or celebrities, I never think about them in a sexual way, I just think they’re easy on the eyes, and even when I’m having sex with my boyfriend, I usually just wait for him to finish, and sometimes I do orgasm, but I usually don’t like the idea of sex, and would be okay with the idea of having sex occasionally, but when my friends were talking about it, they were saying they are having sex everyday if not multiple times a day. I can usually only go for 10-20 minutes or whenever my partner finishes ONCE, and if he wants to go again I find myself unable as I feel very sore and dry (yes, even with lube) and just no longer in the mood. I do find myself sometimes horny and sometimes I am in the mood for sex, but I know my partner would prefer having sex more frequently and daily which I never find myself up for.

If someone has an advice or answers I would really appreciate it, I have just been lost and confused lately