Another day same issues

I’m stressed out to the max. Especially today. The majority of it is my husband. We’ve been together for 9 years and I’m just over all his crap. All he wants to do is play video games, he expects me to do everything. Right now he’s home with our daughter, she’s 2. He can’t even manage to get dishes done, or the laundry swapped over in 9 hours of me working. He doesn’t understand why I get frustrated and everything is always my fault. He never does anything wrong. He asked me what was wrong today and I said nothing to avoid yet another argument, and he insisted I tell him so I said right now I’m hating my life. And he said your life is awesome, u have a toddler and I said she’s not the problem you are. And he just looked at me funny. I don’t want to throw 9 years away, and also sharing our daughter isn’t an option. Im just seriously over this. He acts like a 16 year old. Not to mention our daughter is going through major behavioral changes.