Ladies I’m writing this just to remind you to hold men accountable in the bedroom. I hooked up with a guy some months ago and while we were doing it he wanted to do backshots...I was a bit intoxicated but not like shitfaced. Anyway it felt like he kept putting it in the wrong hole. I tried to tell him what he was doing but he kept denying it, claiming it was “too big to even fit in there”. I knew for sure once he stopped due to a small turd coming out. yes I know...embarrassing af. but again I tried to tell him it was because of what he was doing. we moved to other positions after a bit of an awkward moment. I ended up getting a UTI after this. He has no idea about that & probably still believes he was doing a good job in the bed that night. He recently tried to throw the turd incident in my face, making me mentally relive the experience and get embarrassed again. I’ve definitely learned my lesson. I guess my point here is ladies please give your bodies to men who know wtf they’re doing, and guys who actually care more about just getting their nut.