Sooo I’ve been contemplating on seriously leaving my husband of 9 years.

Not for cheating or being useless around the house but for not being interested in having sex with me! His drive has been declining more and more with the years and I’m having dreams of cheating on him now! I’m 36 and he’s 45 and as you very well know this age is our PEAK season for sex before menopause!

I’ve communicated many times to him how I feel but nothing really changes. I’ve gotten so over it myself I just want it to end. I don’t even want to bring up the word sex. The biggest problem is we’re on opposite sides. If he doesn’t get much affection he can’t function sexually and if I don’t have sex I feel disconnected and not interested in showing affection.

It feels like we’re both standing our ground and I’m ready for it to stop! I’m pretty sure I’m frustrated but I can’t help it!

We don’t have any children and I never nor will ever cheat on him. I will break the relationship before I break his heart. He’s a sweetheart and I see him as an almost perfect partner if it wasn’t for sex. I’ve seen many shows where women say they rather be with a hard worker that helps around the house than to have a sex life. I don’t see me with anyone if there’s no balance in sex, work, family, and vacation. As I’m getting older I’m becoming very aware of my likes and dislikes and at this point I’m considering to be alone!

Thoughts!?