What dpo did you receive your bfp?

I know I'm still early. 13 DPO today. I'm just getting discouraged. You see all these woman who get there bfp as early as 9 DPO and it just makes you feel like it's not going to happen. After having a cp last month this is all I want is to see those two pink lines. At times I feel very confident that it's going to happen, but other times I feel like it won't ever happen.