What do I do? Boyfriend says I am closed off
The relationship is going pretty well so far, it has been 6 great months. I can be awkward/ random and he puts up with it. We have had a really serious conversation about once regarding family relationships and growing up but that’s about it. I’m the type of person who doesn’t talk just to talk, need a give and take situation. I’m not so forthcoming about just talking about things, but that is because I feel like it isn’t important. If he asks me anything I would answer it but trials and tribulations are the last thing that is on my mind when I am with him. Whenever he tells me that I am “closed off,” I tell him to ask my anything... he would then ask something like “who was your first crush?” I can’t help him if he ask questions like that. I have opened the floor for any discussion he would like to talk about but he never takes it. Idk what he wants to know if he doesn’t ask. We haven’t talked about any of our previous relationships. Honestly to me, it doesn’t matter. It is my past good or bad I moved on from that stage.
What should I do?
Is it code for something he wants to know?
What are some questions I can answer that will help him?
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