Am I overreacting

Okay so I have asked around, researched it. Many women are okay with their husbands/ partners watching porn. I thought I was. Until I wasn’t. I saw my fiancé’s porn history and my stomach turned. This is the stuff he watches ? This is what he wants? But he’s “too tired” to have sex with me some of the time. He isn’t very kinky in bed with me, but this is actually what turns him on? I was sick. ( we have a great sex life, so that confuses me too) I confronted him about it and he said he was sorry and was done. A few days later, I snooped in his phone (it’s wrong I know, for that I am wrong and have apologized), I saw that just days after I told him how much I didn’t like it and asked him to stop, he was watching porn again. Not to mention, I saw the time stamp and i was asleep in the other room when he was watching it. I confronted him, and he told me I was wrong, and we didn’t talk for a few days. His word against what I saw with my own eyes. We Fast forward a few weeks. I somewhat caught him watching porn when I came home from work early. I knew what was happening but he denied it. Although he lied when I confronted him, I felt a lot better about it, I decided I was going to just let the porn stuff go. I trust him? He said he’s done with that. So I’m going to trust him and let it all go out of my mind. I just needed to mentally be in a better place about it too.

Well one minute ago I was on YouTube and came across ( I was snooping) on his history. He has searched “best new pornstars” “blonde girls twerking” just a bunch of stuff that I was not expecting. And that was about a month ago. Long after the time our final conversation took place.

In my mind I see it as disrespectful and gross. No he’s not having sex with someone else, but he’s watching other women and lusting over them. I’m not insecure, I’m worried.

Porn has and will continue to ruin many relationships. I want the future father of my children and my husband to want me only. I don’t look at naked pictures of men? Or watch male porn? I don’t think that would be okay with him.

A lot of people will say I’m overreacting. But our trust is broken and I’m about to marry a man that seems to have a pornography problem.

If anyone has any non critical advise for me. I would love that.

(Btw none of the stuff he was watching made me think he’s secretly gay, I know that is something that may come to mind for most)