i bleed almost every time i’m fingered :(( *tmi*

so me and my boyfriend are starting to get worried because more often then not i feel like when we mess around and he fingers me i bleed. usually just a bit, like sheer red or pink discharge, but sometimes (usually a bit closer to my period) it’s brighter, more opaque red. i will admit, we often rush into things bc were so in the moment and he’ll start doing that pretty early in, or as one of the first things he does down there. we also forget lube often. i’m sure that’s why but i just wanna try to get some confirmation! and i don’t bleed long either, it clears up within like, the hour or couple hours. when i’m closer to my period (like today) it takes longer to clear up but eventually does (going from the brighter red, to sometimes darker, to the sheer red/pink, to normal.) occasionally it is actually me starting my period when we do stuff but every other time it’s not straight up blood, it’s discharge. another thing to note, my periods are super irregular n i never know when they’re actually coming until right before. i’m sorry this is so long winded!! i just figure the more detail, the better comments. i assume it’s just scraping because he does more of a circular/up n down motion rather than in and out, and i assume he curls his fingers and hits the same spot. again sorry this is so long, just hoping to get some answers 🥺