So I have sever anxiety and it has only been worse since I had my daughter 2 weeks ago. I told my doctor it gets really bad before bed so she suggested doing “nighttime snuggles” in bed 30 minutes to an hour before she goes to bed. We go to bed at a way later time due to work so we are ALWAYS wide awake while she’s in bed with us for “nighttime snuggles” (I do NOT support co-sleeping) Anyway, this has truly helped my anxiety and it honestly helps my daughter fall to sleep and transfer better because she’s sleeping so heavily that she doesn’t even notice. Tonight on the other hand was different. I’m wide awake which is normal for me at this time so I let her sleep in my bed for an hour to make sure she was sound asleep since she had a pretty hard day with some formula allergies... I don’t know if it’s the formula allergies she had or what but this girl WILL NOT TRANSFER 😭 I let her cry for 5 minutes but I refuse to let my daughter scream any longer. I’m sure I’ll get loads of hate for this post but I’m hoping I get just as much support and advice. I’m a first time mom just trying to do my best for both my mental wellbeing and my daughter overall.