Her husband is sleeping with a woman from work .

So my writing this post about my best friend I been giving her advice on this topic for too long now She dose NOT listen to me yet she asks for my advice since I’m a married woman .

So I asked her if I can write about this topic on Glow on her behalf she said yes she wants to see what u married women think about her situation.

So my best friend has been married to her man since 2015 they dated since 2013 .

They have a 2 year old son together and own a home together.

She was very happy with him but recently she told me they started to fall apart he started to act different he lost weight and started to go out ALOT with random friends she’s never seen .

Leaving her home alone a lot with the baby he spent his free time and days off with his friends and even spent nights with his friends .

I even told her that sounds so weird and not like him but she let it slide a lot .

Then after a few months of this he told her he’s not happy he rather be single .

She went into a state of depression even went to therapy and been taking depression pills she has her good and bad days .

Her husband told her he wants to be single but not divorce because he dose not want her to get welfare help or put him on child support that’s the only reason why he won’t divorce her .

He has told her he was texting other females online and hanging out with them she was heartbroken.

He told her he’s been depressed for a few years he only stuck around for there son .

Now she found out he is sleeping with a coworker of his .

She messaged the girl on Facebook and wanted to see if it’s true the girl said yes that’s her bf and they been having sexual relations for a few months now .

Mind u my best friend and her man are still married and live in the same house and they do still have sex (only because she makes him yes she said she makes him )

Her husband told her he would let her live in that home till she saves up money to move out she dose not want to move out but he told her she has to the house is ONLY under his name she thought it was under both names he owns both cars and the home . So he’s telling her to save money and move out ( she isn’t saving money she spends a lot of money on pointless things like purses makeup and random things also she eat out everyday and she keeps asking me for saving money advice I do tell her to cut back on the unnecessary spending and save at least $100 every paycheck if she can do that )

I told her she needs to go get that divorce paper work started yet she says she can’t because her husband doesn’t want the divorce finalized because of child support. He dose not want to pay her child support

She asks for my advice I give her it and she dose not take it she dose the opposite thing .

She called me crying a few days ago that her husband was taking the baby and going on a camping trip for a week with the baby and his new GF and her kids so u know what she did she begged her husband for sex so he can have sex with her before he goes on the trip with his GF .

I told her don’t give him sex because he thinks he can have her and this new girl and that’s not okay .

She said she forces him to have sex with her every time he plans on sleeping over at his gfs house I don’t think that’s okay for her to be having sex with him because it messes with her emotions I feel so bad for her but I don’t know what other advice to give her than to leave him !!

She says it’s just sex because her husband tells her don’t get ur feelings hurt I love my GF I’m just doing this to make u not get the divorce. On top of this anytime she talks to other men on Facebook or Snapchat he makes her delete them even if they are friends of hers .

I told her it’s complete BS how she can’t have male friends yet he has a GF he stays nights with goes on trips with for weeks not fair what should I tell her ?

What’s ur advice married women or women that been thru something like this situation.

I’m married and I can’t imagine going thru this I wouldn’t stay around for this abuse I love my husband but I would never let anyone treat me this way I keep telling her she’s valuable and a wonderful mom I would help her get an apartment my mother in law owns apartments and she can move in deposit free she dosent take the advice please if u have any words of encouragement please write them and I will definitely show her all of your guys response thank you ❤️

Update : I have showed her all these messages and she just agreed with everyone and what everyone had to say BUT SHE IS NOT taking the advice I have told her over and over again to leave I’m getting tired of it not to mention she called me today with more news she said she found out her husband has cameras watching her while he is away on trips Orr with his gf he put the cameras around the house to spy on her to make sure she dose not have any company over while he is gone meaning male company this pisses me off how she is okay with it she said it means he cares about her I’m completely done giving this woman my advice thanks for all the advice you women left below I did show her but seems like she’s going have. To learn on her own ! All you women are completely right she needs to do what’s best for her baby I have told her that 1,000 times till I’m blue in the face her baby comes before any man and she just says yeah ur right but she hasn’t tried to make the change I even offered to help her move and get her a apartment she denied the help I don’t know what else to do for her she’s my best friend and I love her and want the best for her but I can’t help someone who won’t take the help thanks again ladies for ur advice on this subject.