Get you a man like this 😭❤️

For context he just started a new job a few weeks ago and I’ve been working from home trying to build a business for the past almost 3 years. We have always had not necessarily “fights” per se but we would disagree who’s “lucky” because in his opinion I would “get to” stay home (I had to leave my amazing job because I suffer from PTSD and they could not accommodate me) while he “has to” go to work. I feel that he “gets” to leave the house every day and be distracted with his work while I am feeling trapped inside the house with my anxiety, depression and ptsd. (Especially since covid!) Oh also we only have one vehicle so I literally am stuck at home lol

*** Note: I have been to counselling and therapy and tried a lot of things but still struggle from time to time when I am triggered by unavoidable things.

Anyways the reason he finally sees my point of view is because of this career change, his job before he had to be mentally “on” all the time so he never had the time to think while at work.

Today before he left we were talking about how it’s unfair that I have to do all the laundry and cleaning and cooking. I said “I feel like a 1950s housewife sometimes” and lately I have been feeling like my career is just not gonna ever happen because I’m too busy with housework.

The conversation got cut off because he had to leave but not long into his shift he texted me this ❤️ I know he tries really hard already and this is legit the only thing we ever argue about. So I feel more than blessed that he’s willing to try even harder!

Makes me wonder why I didn’t leave my previous 5 year abusive relationship sooner hahaha

Tl,dr;

My husband is amazing already but he acknowledges that he still has room to improve 😭❤️