Should i tell her?

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I have a huge dilemma, my sister’s husband has been hitting on me for the past year. They have a one and ahalf-year-old daughter. I have told him to stop but he continues to do so. I don’t know if I should tell her what’s been happening. Because I would ruin her life, but I would definitely want someone to tell me! She’s my sister and I love her a lot, help I need advice!!!!! ￼￼￼😓

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U should of told her a year ago

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YES. Tell her! Your loyalty lies with your sister, not her husband.

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You’re not ruining her life. He’s doing that by himself. Maybe explain to her why you waited a year though because I think that would be suspicious to me if someone took that long to tell me...

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Perhaps a better first approach would be to ask your husband to protect you from this unwanted behaviour.
 He could take the guy aside and have a strong and straight forward man to man talk to him. He could tell him that behaving this way towards his wife (you) if not something he's going to torolate,
 and if he wants to say more he could say that he needs to love his own wife more and be a Man who is  faithful, he could also remind him what he's got, and ask him if he really wants to lose it? . If he knows your husband knows and is displeased he may well back off. 
Also try not to be alone with your brother in law.

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If he’s doing it to you - think who else he’s hitting on that she isn’t close to. 
She isn’t going to want to hear it but you need to say something. Maybe he’s being disrespectful to her in other ways too

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Girl if you don’t tell your sister !!! Your loyalty lies with your family !!!

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