Am I right to be super upset and hurt?

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My husband misses people he’s been with. Like ex’s. Not even serious ones.. im honestly so hurt but he’s trying to say it’s okay to have unresolved feelings and stuff. Idk i just feel so hurt by this....

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This is not okay because this showcases that he isn’t all about you and that would just break me. Remember you was resilient! Know your worth💕

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That is absolutely not okay. Some people just like making people jealous and upset and this could be what he is doing. Which is absolutely not okay at all! It’s never nice to hear about ex’s anyway especially someone saying they miss them! Imagine if you said that there is no chance he’d be okay with it. Give him a taste of his own medicine and say you know what you said the other day, I was thinking about it and actually I understand because I miss.... tbh I would break up with him because clearly he has no respect for you feelings and it’s clearly not loyal at all. I’m so sorry you had to experience that, you deserve someone better <3

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Your feelings are completely valid (as they always are). I’m saying this because I was the type of person that used jealousy to boost my ego, he has to resolve some inner stuff.. Have a real talk with him and let him know it’s not fair on you, even if he has unresolved feelings he should’t be projecting that on you.

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You have every right to be upset and feel how you do but he just has unresolved feelings and I think that’s ok as long as he has stronger feelings for you and doesn’t go acting on feelings for exes.

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You feel so hurt by this because he’s telling you his current lover that he misses being with his ex lovers, serious or not. This isn’t okay.

Am I right to be super upset and hurt?

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