Genital Herpes?

So my vagina has been really itchy recently and it happened after I shaved for the first time in months (bc quarantine). I had this guy over but we didn’t have sex. He did finger me pretty aggressively though and after that I was sore, but since then it has become itchy on the inside and a little on the out. There are no bumps or marks anywhere other than just redness from itching. I have had sex in the past so I’m wondering if this is connected to a past thing and could be herpes or from recently and is just an infection.