I need wedding advice

Just curious did anyone regrets having a wedding. My partner proposed to me june23rd 2018. We started planning bought my wedding dress and such and then I found I was pregnant so we put the wedding on hold. My family didn’t like the idea of having a baby without being married so we decided to elope that December. Everyone told me we could still have a wedding after the baby’s born to renew our vows and I liked the idea anyways. Now my baby is a year old I’m trying to plan but I feel as nobody really cares to take part. My husband says he’s one board but gets mad if I buy anything for it... we already set the date for October 9th 2021. I only have a maid of honor(my sister ) and even she don’t seem to involved. But everyone knows since I was little I have wanted to wear a big princess dress and walk down the aisle and have a good party after then a honeymoon. And I don’t want that dream taken away especially after I already bought my dress... it’s not going to be a big wedding just a small one with a bonfire. And I’m paying for it all I haven’t asked nobody to pay for none of it.