My husband is planning an “all guys” trip to Hawaii (it’s not all guys, a couple of wives are going) for a couple of their birthdays that land around the same time in August. I will be 32 weeks pregnant at the time. Although it’s not ideal, I technically could still go but feel pressure from my husband not to. He feels as if I’ll be too pregnant that I’ll just sit around at the airbnb all weekend. Every time the trip gets brought up, I get upset. He doesn’t realize that I have also been in quarantine and would like to go somewhere. I just wish he would’ve planned something that involved me and our daughter too. It turns into a fight almost every other day and blames me for “making him feel bad”. Am I being selfish?