Is it normal for your SO to go to the beach with his Ex wife and kids?

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Just trying to figure out how I should feel about this, has anybody gone through that?

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How old r the kids? They r probably just trying to give the kids time with both parents at the same time. But eventually when u get closer to the kids maybe u will get to go along ukno? But idk if u watch youtube vlogs.. but dont be a trisha here. Lol for many divorced couples- they dont do this lol but for some - i think its nice for the kids

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It depends on if they regularly do things together like this for the kids. Some people still do family outings after they’re divorced and some people don’t.

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The parents are co-parenting even though they no longer are married and in love. That doesn’t mean they don’t love their family together and make sure to teach their children a healthy way to navigate divorce and parenting. If I were you I would admire this trip to the beach. Wish them a lovely time. Whatever it is between you and your partners in the relationship you have that is making you feel “threatened” or “confused” should be addressed healthily. I would seek counselling for yourself. And be curious and open to learning more about your husband. It seems he has good qualities. By not accepting his family and their decisions to continue doing things together will cause a great rift between you. Embrace all of your SO. He chose to be with YOU. But despite that seems to want to have a healthy relationship with the family he made with his ex. Those moments probably mean so much to the kids, and informs them that even though mom and dad are no longer together, their decision to have a family together is a commitment. You decided to date a man with a fam, and all that comes with it. Please don’t be sour. If their are things between you that are causing this jealousy it has a lot more to do with what you expect than what may actually be working great. If you want to be included you have to get to that point with reverence for your partners family.

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I think that they should still be able to do things as a family. If you don’t trust your partner you should talk to them

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Yea it depends on their relationship.  They could be amicable for the children.  
Personally I don't think I'd be completely comfortable but I'd also just have to keep quiet and get over it because it's in the best interests of the kids. 
If he's given you no reason to doubt his intentions with her, it's fine.

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Actually I feel like this depends. There could be two reasons 1. Spending time with his kids & the wanted him to come or 2. Somethings fishy going on with him and his ex but that’s if it’s been suspicious 🤔

Is it normal for your SO to go to the beach with his Ex wife and kids?

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