Hello i need desperately for people’s opinions. I am 22, engaged, and have a 5 month old son. My fiancé thinks I am over reacting or my feelings aren’t warranted but I just need to vent and want outside advice or options on the matter.

My fiancé and I have been together almost 5 years now and his dad, stepmom, and sister don’t like me. They make passive aggressive comments constantly when we visit and make me feel so uncomfortable.

I’d like to disclaim that I have put so much effort and time into trying to be apart of their family and they never have tried to have a relationship with me. I have bent over backwards to try and get them to like me and for whatever reason they just don’t.

I have always wanted to be close with the man I marries family and it breaks my heart that I will never have that with them.

His stepmoms son is 25 and has been married and divorced twice, he has a son from his first marriage and they were married for only a year and a half . But my fiancé’s dad and step mom act likes she is still their daughter in-law. And his ex wife had a baby with another man who she is marrying and they act like the child is their grandchild and spend all their time with a child who isn’t their blood and never ask about our son. They go to her house and play with her son who isn’t related to them, they called him their grandchild and bought him shirts that sayin grandma little boy, they have him over their house all the time and post photos with him all over Facebook and Instagram. His sister posted a photo online with the ex sister in laws son who is only 4 months older than our son and said “cutest little boy in the world” and it breaks my heart and makes me so damn angry because our son is actually her nephew and she never once has texted or called to see how he is or anything. She’s taken pictures with our son but has never posted anything about him or a photo with him. And when we see them they act like it’s all my fault I don’t send them picture of our son or update them on how he’s doing when they never ask or even act like they care. Am I insane for feeling how I feel?

I am tired of giving them my time and exhausting myself for people who don’t give a damn about me or my son. It has taken a toll on my relationship with my fiancé and I am just so tired of trying to get people who don’t like to want to have a relationship with me or favor someone who isn’t family over me and my son.