On Sunday I had my first orgasm with my boyfriend. I lost my virginity to him 6 months ago and it was a struggle. I have a history of sexual assault and that was a definite road block. I struggled with not feeling anything other then pain or nothing at all. But It happened. I wanted to post this because if anyone is struggling with this know you are not alone. It was hard and stressful. He tried so hard but still nothing. This is normal and it doesn’t make you or him less then others. Just know that you deserve it and you will be able to find something that works for you.