“Gross P*ssy”How would you react?

So long story short

Ive been with my husband for 11years now

We have 3 kids and currently pregnant with our 4th.

About a month ago one day my husband went out drinking and stayed out all night.

Of course it causes an arguement between us, i was really mad the fact that Im home 24/7 with the kids while he is out drinking when he could be home helping me out with them. and its not just once, he goes out good amount of times but what gets to me the most is that he doesnt come home, if he does its literally like 5am. 🙄

So anyways back to that one day yes I confronted him i was upset we were bickering back and forth until I ended up ignoring him. Than he finishes it off by saying “your p*ssy is gross”

It hurt me alot but I carried on as if I didnt care.

Fast forward to now we have not had any sex at all whatsoever. I honestly dont even feel comfortable to have sex with him anymore, but he hasnt tried to do anything with me either.

Which gets me thinking if that is literally how he feels towards me.

Our sex life was pretty bad even before, And him saying that just makes it worse and I think to myself “well now I know why we would hardly have sex”

Being 30 weeks pregnant super big and all really makes me feel low about myself.

How would you ladies react if your SO told you something like this.?