This is our second pregnancy and with our first it was very rough for me. I had gestational hypertension and a doctor who had left me pregnancy past full term even though my blood pressure was about to cause me to stroke. I switched doctors at 40 weeks pregnant (don't be afraid to stand up for yourself!). Anyways, I am already being labeled high risk because there is high amounts of protein in my urine indicating preeclampsia which means I have to keep very careful watch of my blood pressure. I'm having trouble deciding between announcing our pregnancy and enjoying it, and hiding it until the very end because who knows what could happen. It feels like a very tough decision and while I want to be happy and enjoy ourselves and bring this child into the happiest family I also feel like I am doing my other child a dishonor because I cannot take as good of care of her as I used to. Daddy does baths now because I am too tired and feel faint 24/7.