For the past year or so, sex has been very painful for me. Often times I will bleed for around a week after. Granted, I haven’t been having sex consistently and I am using hormonal birth control and don’t get regular periods. Is it possible it’s because of those reasons? Every time I’ve used lube and did foreplay with my partners. Right now it’s more painful than usual because my partner is bigger than anyone I’ve been with before. I’m going into the doctor ASAP but any advice in the meantime?