Am i gay?

Hi, im a woman and trough all my whole life i question if i liked girls, since i was little, and i thought it was wrong because I thought if i told my family my dad would react violently, a few years ago i came out as bisexual, to my surprise it was my mom who reacted negatively and my was very supportive, after that im now wondering if im actually a lesbian, since I do find men pretty but wouldn’t date, have sex or marry them, i know i shouldn’t worry about it that much but i feel that if i come out as lesbian it would be freeing even though im worried about my other families reaction.