Finding my Pleasure spot

Hi so this is kinda out of my comfort zone but me and my partner need some help. We were having sex the other night and he cares more about me enjoying it then him and we were having problems to find my pleasure spot and he was determined for him to find it well anyways he couldn’t so he said next time he wants to find it does any one have any advice ? No rude comments cause I am already out of my comfort zone but I need some advice!