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My bf wants to have sex with me but I'm a virgin and nervous about it but I also would like to. I'm 18 years old. Can anyone give me helpful advice?

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I agree with everyone else and wanted to add that don't think that having sex proves that you love him or anything like that. Sex does not equal love and no sex doesn't mean no love! If he pressures you or tries to get you to do things you tell him you don't want to do, then he doesn't deserve you. Love does equal respect.

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If you don't feel comfortable, DON'T DO IT. you want to feel like yourself and not rushed. You'll know when you're ready.

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If you aren't 99999999% for sure then I don't recommend it. Sex can be a wonderful thing if you are comfortable in your own skin and with your partner but if you aren't completely comfortable it can be horrible!

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Dont do Nything until you feel ready. This is a huge step and you need to take it when you want it, never do it because you're feeling pressure or influence from anyone else. Also, talk to your GP about tips on being healthy and safe, if you become sexually active you'll also need to have Pap smears done every 2 years.

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If you don't want to have sex, don't do it. Don't let him pressure you, if he truley loves you, he will wait.

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Is nervousness normal?

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When I was 18, I was dating this guy and I was a virgin. He wanted to have sex, and I did too, but I didn't really feel ready. We were together for a few months but then we broke up. A few months later I met my current boyfriend and lost my virginity to him soon after. I wasn't with him for long before we had sex, but I felt ready then. If you feel ready then go for it, but if you don't, you'll know, and I think you should wait.

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If you love him, he makes you feel comfortable (is not trying to pressure you), if he's willing to seduce you (not in a creepy way!) and make it special I say go for it. If not, dump him and wait for the one who will. My first time was with my first serious BF at 18, both of us and we were both virgins. I was very fortunate.

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