So as the title reads, my sister is toxic. I avoid her at all costs. She's arrogant, selfish, and rude. I will admit she does have nice qualities as well, but the bad outweighs the good.

What really bothered me was what happened when I was pregnant with my son 3 years ago. She wasn't happy about it and was angry that I was getting all the attention (she was 23 and I was 24 at the time). I couldn't even enjoy my pregnancy because of her, which sucks and it angers me everytime I think about it. She'd repeatedly tell "me and my friend looked it up and im still in the abortion window". Just gross comments like that. We lived in the same house at the time. My nana couldn't even enjoy him because she was so jealous and rude about it.

She would not hold my son and made fun of the way he looked. Now that he's older she claims she wants to meet him now and whatnot. She seems like she's matured a bit. Who knows though.

The reason I'm asking is because she says she wants a kid in 3 or 4 years. Part of me wants to treat her like she treated me, but im not that way. I dont know how i'd feel if she had a kid honestly.

What do you think? What would you do? Im actually pretty conflicted. Thanks everyone.

Edit: Ill also add she was angry because I didn't just give my son to her when he was a newborn. Like what? Why would I do that when you clearly showed dislike. Also, she purprosely would try to scare him as well. I forgot about that one. Im jsut so angry about it honestly.