So my best friend birthday is on July 3rd and so is my little sister who is turning 9!

My best friend is throwing a party and I know my mom isn't going to watch my kids on my sister bday and I know my husband is going to feel some type of way if I go to a party for 1 (which I really don't feel comfortable going because I'm married and I just dont do parties) and 2 he'll be home with the kids while I'm at a party!

I have never really spent time with my best friend on her birthday because of my little sister!

I'm so lost on what I should do. I dont want to hurt anybody feelings.

Please no rude comments.