I HATE my arms/armpits! *warning*

So I grew up with a little bulge on my underarms and always thought it was just fat because I was a little chubby, but I was 5'3 weighing 120, I was just insecure, after my first baby, 6 years ago! It got worse, then after my 4th child it is much uglier.. it gets swollen and engorged and seeps out milk just like my breast do, I never ever wear tank tops in public, bras and any type of shirts irritate it and are super uncomfortable! It looks like I have extra arms growing because they gotten bigger with my last baby which was a month ago.. so milk squeezes out my armpit fats, it squirts out even when I squish them, after a walk in the sun it's super wet and smells terrible! I shower everyday! Idk what to do, I'm so insecure about it, my doctor says the only way is surgery, and even I cant afford it with 4 children.. so my question is.. would be appropriate or even okay to post a go fund me page for this type of surgery removal?

They say accesive breast tissue is normal in pregnancy, does this look normal? I never see other woman with this problem. :(