Husband Taking Woman to Coffee

UPDATE #2: He came home last night and I told him we were through if he was going to put another woman before me. His parents verified the time he left to go meet her and the time he came back to their house. I texted a mutual friend who works at the Panera they went to for coffee and dinner and the approximate time they arrived (separately) and left (separately) matches with what his parents said so she says she doesn’t think they had time to meet up before or after. She said she was confused as to why he was in town meeting with a woman who wasn’t me but he explained it was an old friend and she felt better about it. She had texted me to ask if I knew he was out with her and I said yes and asked her to watch them. ANYWAYS looks like he wasn’t physically cheating but he was still an utter asshole to me and I have no idea if they’ve been virtually cheating, even though he lets me go through his phone. SO. We agreed to go to therapy and if things don’t change we are done. Thanks for all the support ladies. I hope he gets his head on straight and is a good husband and father from now on. Really praying that he realizes how close he is to losing me and baby girl.

UPDATE: I texted him that I’m in the ER due to extreme dehydration and nausea and he replied with “K. I’m busy so don’t text me a ton.” HES DEAD

So lately my husband has been pushing the topic of having an open marriage because he feels like he never got to “have fun” with other women before we were married(we got married young). We’ve stopped talking about it the last few days so I figured all was well.

Then he texts me today while out of state visiting family and let’s me know he’s taking his old high school crush out to coffee and possibly dinner. I asked him why he felt such a strong need to do so and he said they had a lot to catch up on and that she was just divorced, etc. I have a horrible feeling about this and he’s not answering his phone now. I don’t want to be that wife who jumps to conclusions but I have a bad feeling in my gut that he wants more than just coffee with her

EDIT: To add, I’m almost 37 weeks pregnant and he never wants to sleep with me.