Heating Things Up...

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now, and we’re definitely at a point where we’re comfortable together. Our sex life has always been pretty simple and basic, which I have been totally okay with. We’re more the type to laugh than make things sexy and sultry. I also seem to be the one with the higher sex drive 😅😂

I honestly didn’t even know he had that kind of sultry, passionate energy in him until one night when we were both drunk and home from the bar. After both of us made the comment that we were too drunk for sex, we somehow ended up in the bathroom where he basically threw me onto the vanity and got a good kind of roughness going. It was heated, sexy, and a “fucking” versus “making love” kind of sesh 😅😂😂😂

ANYWAYS, I’m trying to figure out how we can make it to that kind of roughness and passion again. Truthfully, it’s hard for either of us to be that serious and not laugh.

What kind of things do you or your partner do to heat things up before or during sex? I want to see him like that again so badly, but it’s so hard for me to even take myself seriously trying to act all sexy 👀😂