Is this abuse

Last night my husband tried to take our one month old baby from me to burp her but he started to pull her away while she was latched onto my boob and nursing and in my half asleep state I grabbed his wrist to stop him and dug my nail into his wrist in hopes it would wake him up and stop him since I knew how bad it would hurt if he succeeded in taking her with her latched on. We’re both sleep deprived and exhausted and I’ve asked him so many times to not try to pull her away from my boob when she’s nursing but he doesn’t listen. Should I have scratched him? Nope. But I panicked especially since he’s been sleep walking lately and he’s really confused at night. But now he’s calling me abusive? I wouldn’t have even remembered this if he didn’t bring it up