Should I be worried about her?

Question

I have been seeing this guy for a little while now, and we aren’t in a relationship. We’re just dating casually, but he says he likes me a lot and wants something more. Well there is this girl that he is in constant contact with, they have a 1,000 day streak on Snapchat, and talk from the moment they wake up to when they fall asleep. I don’t know what about because I don’t want to be that girl that is looking over his shoulder all of the time.

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There’s nothing wrong with asking who that is. I hate the idea that women are “crazy” for expecting transparency. If he gets upset, evaluate whether or not you’re wasting your time with him.

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That’s such a tough call.. I was that girl with my husband for a long time before we were dating.. his girlfriends hated me and saw me as such a threat, even when I had boyfriends of my own.. and we know how that turned out 🤷🏼‍♀️
But then he also has another close friend that’s a girl, and there definitely are no romantic feelings between them.. never have been. I was up front with him about it at the beginning of our relationship, and he assured me they were just friends and it’s never been an issue.

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If he wants something more then go ahead and ask... there’s no issue with transparency. And if he has an issue then he’s not ready for a relationship 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Honestly that may be his girlfriend, that may be his baby mama, that may be his wife or she could be another woman he’s juggling on the side. He could be a fuck boy. Which I have a feeling he probably is. You deserve better, I wouldn’t bother with this guy, he’s wasting your time. Walk away, you deserve better

Should I be worried about her?

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