Baby shower?

Victoria

I’m sure this is a hot topic, but who is actually doing a baby shower? I’m due at the end of October and I’ve been thinking about doing multiple mini ones rather than a big one (I live in VA and restrictions have been lifted to phase two so far). A friend of mine is having hers in July and she’s due at the beginning of October so does that mean I should do one in August sometime? I know I need to make a decision soon so I can send out invitations, especially for my many out of town family members, but I really don’t want a virtual one. I don’t feel like I’m charismatic enough to host one and even though I had 3 offers at the beginning, no one has volunteered to host a baby shower or given advice when I bring it up since the corona thing took over.