Cures for anal pain

I always have anal with my husband but last night it was rough to was throwing it back and it was rough today woke up with pain can’t walk or sit my ass hole hurts a lot me and my husband always have vaginal and anal sex but we had had days without having sex at all so last night he was really rough I took a shower today and still feel discharge from my but hole and feels so irritated my husband doesn’t like to use lube before anal sometimes it had hurt but not so much and I was enjoying it lastnight kind of hurt but it felt good also