How to earn back trust?

Question

Is it even possible?
Me and my boyfriend had a massive argument and at one point he said he didn’t trust me because I’d gone through his phone. And he feels like he has no privacy. 
But I did it because it I knew he was smoking again and I proved it.
Wrong of me. I know. And I accept that and I apologised. 
But i don’t know how to fix things.

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You dont trust him. It seems like you have reason to if he's lying. You BOTH need to work on that.

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Stop going through his phone of course he doesn't trust you i wouldn't trust my boyfriend if he kept going through my phone and if you need to go through his phone you already don't trust him

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yeah it’s possible. both partners need to put the same amount of effort for it. it can be lengthy but it is possible.

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He's gaslighting you. Yes you went through his phone and also he lied to you and broke your trust by smoking when he said he wasnt. At this point it sounds like you two should just move on.

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It’s possible, but you guys have to be willing to make that commitment.  It’s doesn’t sound positive though - You don’t trust him, he doesn’t trust you.  That’s a hard path.  Maybe couples counseling could help?

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You don’t trust him either clearly. So he’s broken your trust also.

How to earn back trust?

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