What did I do wrong ?.....

So my boyfriend texted me a hr after he got off saying he’s doing something with his car.. am I wrong for asking wyd again after 2hours ?

So it’s 7pm and I’m wondering what he’s doing now so I text him Wyd and he replies I’m on my way! When he gets home 20 minutes later he comes in the bedroom and he yells at me for asking him what he was doing because he told me at 5 he was getting a estimate for the paint job. He’s like I don’t have to come straight home after work everyday your questioning me like I’m doing something else I told you what I was doing. I replied all I asked was wyd? And your going off about something so little. He’s like this the shit I be talking bout little shit like this irritates tf outta me. I told you what I was doing so that’s that. You had no reason to ask what I was doing again. He really got defensive for no reason. Lately I’ve been having a gut feeling like he’s doing something sneaky behind my back. Sometimes when I walk past him when he’s on his phone he puts it down quick or goes to something else. He also accused me of cheating a little over 2 weeks ago. I proved to him I wasn’t the guys friends I have are just that and we literally argued about that for a long time he said my mind made up so get out ( We live together but he pays rent and I take care of everything else). He constantly told me to get out and he doesn’t need me and he’ll pay me for everything I brought etc. I have no where else to go and I was like your doing all of this over assumptions without coming to me eventually we talked it out and we were good.

Not related to the text but this is how he is sometimes and it just makes me feel like shit.

I’m out of a job right now because of the pandemic and I asked him to help out around the house and he’s like why your home all day not doing shit and I’m at work I’m tired when I get home. I told him I use to do it all even when I worked he’s like that was then this is now. I use to work 6 days a week 9am-6/7pm and I would come home clean and cook etc and he would be on his game all day when he’s off work. He does nasty stuff that gets on my nerves like peeing on the toilet seat and not cleaning it and leaving tooth paste in the sink it’s so disgusting. Your a grown man I shouldn’t have to ask you to clean up after yourself. He constantly tells me how I’m not doing shit. I wish I could find another job I’ve been applying everywhere and no luck yet. I’m also starting school in August and studying to take this COMPTIA+ test soon so I can get this job around IT job in the pentagon around the fall time. I just needed to rant because I’m just over it and always feel like I’m doing something wrong.