Okay so I’m 25 at the moment. I still live with my parents. Have a lot of school debt but I am able to save some money and live rent free.

My job doesn’t pay great and I am in the process of wanting to get a better paying job so I can move in when my boyfriend buys his house.

I am just PRAYING it happens soon. I’m tired of living here. My dad has been so abusive and has horrible temper tantrums like a child. I had items stored in the attic and he took everything down and started throwing it out and then went on a tangent how I am spoiled and don’t respect anyone or anything.

If you think Donald trump is a gaslighter than you have not met my dad. He rules the house and is horrible to my mom and brother as well. He goes off on my mom for no reason and calls her names. He said my brother was a burden for no reason. But he never says sorry. He needs years and years of therapy to work through deep issues but he would tell you you are retarded (his favorite word) and laugh at you.

I want to leave so bad but I am not financially stable. I do have an income and I am looking to get out but it’s taking a lot longer.

Luckily I have a little over 8,000 saved up and another 2,000 for emergencies and to help with stuff for my boyfriend when he does move in to his nee house.

I’ve never told anyone that he treats us like this. There’s also been physical abuse for years but for now its just emotional and mental abuse.

Does anyone have any tips?

Btw, I do pay off my loans each month. I pay 500 a month so I am paying them and shoveling my way out of debt but still.