Need advice!!

Tina

I’ve been talking to this guy since last year, at one point I felt like everything was going well,there are times when we won’t talk for a few days (he’s in the military, which I understand our schedules are different) but there are times where he’ll post on social media and not hit me up at all? And sometimes he acts as if he were single. He’s called me baby, and his love and we even told each other I love you🥰. Says he can’t wait to see me when he comes home(in a few months) I need advice on what should I do? I don’t know exactly what we are😭

Ps this is my first “relationship”