Am I being unreasonable?

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So my husband started a conversation like "so our plans to go away this weekend , I cancelled them, and you're gonna be mad but I'm going on a boys trip this weekend" with his brother and his brothers friend. Now his brothers friend is a BAD influence. Trying to be a "rapper" doing coke off of  chicks everywhere he goes (I've seen it in person) just a really wreckless irresponsible kid. The last time my husband went on a boys trip with these guys he spent $2000 in 2 days which we are still paying back. Now he wants to go again and go to the casinos again and said "I'll only spend $100" and is mad at me for being bothered by him going.  Considering we're trying to move next month I explained we should save money. But I'm being "dramatic" am I missing something ?!

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Nope....not cool on so many levels

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If my guy came home and told me he canceled our plans for something as fucking stupid as a boys trip ... I would be pissed . Let alone him hanging out with people who do shit like that . And also going to the casino period . It’s suchhhhhh a waste of money .

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Nope. The amount he spent last time is plenty reason for you to not be okay with this.

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So what you do is take all his debit cards, credit cards etc. And only give him cash. Hes proven hes irresponsible as fuck, and then you go on a girls trip and have fun and enjoy yourself doing whatever you wanna do. Ied be pissed the fuck off and have gone off on him

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He’s being a fucking child. I wouldn’t stay with a POS like that.
If you have any joint accounts, I would be pulling out all of the money and putting it into a personal account that he couldn’t touch. If I was on any of his credit cards, I would be calling and removing myself from them. 
It’s one thing to go have fun with friends and another to be a complete and utter douche and cancel plans you made with your wife to go and gamble away money when you know you’re saving to move. If he’s so adamant that he’s “only going to use $100” then give him $100 cash out of the money you move to a personal account.

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He is gaslighting you. This is fucked on many levels and i would probably leave him unless he apologized and tried to make it right

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Hell to no no no

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Wow I get upset when my husband doesnt want to go out to a restaurant I was looking forward to 😆 If he cancelled plans to go out with his friends I would be mad and hurt (unless it was like an important event). In your case its def not.

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How long did you guys have plans to go away because I would be upset by him canceling for a boys trip knowing we have plans. It one thing to go on another weekend but to cancel our plans and blow money on the last trip would just be a little to much.

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Definitely not being unreasonable! Trading a trip with you for a boys trip without your ok? Fuck that! The nerve of him!

Am I being unreasonable?

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