Age gap relationship as a teen molded me

When I was 16 I had a 2 year “secret” relationship with my boss who was 36-38. I first met him when I was 12. I broke up with him to be free and enjoy college only to fantasize about older men all the time and I’m now 26, married and have a baby with a man 20 years older than me. I told him about this previous relationship and he said what happened was wrong and how it happed was wrong.