So please don't judge I know a lot of people well, but I don't need any more than I've already gotten. Back in September my children were placed in foster care. My house wasn't as clean as it should be and we have thought this whole time that it was my spouse's grandmother that called yeah, but now I'm not so sure that it wasn't actually my spouse. I've been doing everything that we have been asked to do to try and get them back but my spouse has mother and his grandmother have all been talking badly about me to the case manager remind her about who I am as a person. I've talked to my spouse's mother about everything and she said that my spouse said that he just wanted to let it go and let things happen the way that they were. Back in April a little under two weeks before our four year wedding anniversary he told me he wanted a divorce and that I had to get out of his house and then all of a sudden he changed his mind and said that he didn't want to divorce and that I didn't have to leave. Fast forward almost a month and I get a case review letter from her case manager and it said that she told my husband that he would be better off getting the children back if he wasn't with me and that she told him that the day that he broke up with me but he got back together with me. Fast forward another couple months and come to find out he hasn't been giving the case manager any of the things she's been asking for and ignores her phone calls and ignore text messages. Fast forward again a little bit and we got another case review and again it was saying that my spouse is perfect Spain and then I'm a terrible person and that based on what my spouse has mother and his grandmother have said I am not capable of being a parent I obviously confronted him about it and he refused to talk about the subject and kept dropping the subject. He doesn't seem to care about anything or anyone but himself and I don't know how to feel or what to do. I was joking around the other day and I told them that if we ended up actually getting a divorce that we'd have a hard time splitting up our five cats and he told me I would get our oldest cat and our two youngest cats and he would get the second oldest cat and her kitten and then started telling me how we would split up the other belongings that we have. He refuses to let me touch his phone or even know his phone password and I need time I try and even touch his phone even to look at the time he freaks out on me he's been fighting with me all the time he's been super distant he hasn't wanted to touch me tell me he loves me or anything of the sort. When we got the case review the other day the very end of it said that either this case hearing or the next when they will be moving to terminate rights and place the children for adoption and I told him that and he didn't seem to care at all. I don't know how to feel or anything. I'm only 22. I dont know what to do anymore.