9 dpo and negative test

I know 9 dpo is still really early. But, from 2 dpo up until 7 dpo and I just had a feeling it was our month. I was sick, had insomnia, burst of energy that I never get, headaches, and so on. Starting at 8 dpo EVERYTHING just disappeared. The only difference between my normal self and being 9 dpo is my back feeling like it could go out on me. I’m not even cramping anymore. 😭