Ive debating on posting this because I dont want to mention it to my in laws and make them feel weird or make myself look like a bitch. Its a long story, but We have grpup texts for faniky events- cookouts, holidays, bday- etc but here lately I'm not included in those. I dont hear about times or when I need to have my lil family at their events until they're calling asking where we are and why we're late? They include my husband in their group messages, but he doesn't read them. He mutex the group text bc its all women- his sisters and mom and we take care of the details, food and preparations for when we have get togethers. They used to include me in them, but here's what gets me, when we miss events or they want to do something with us or want to take our kid somewhere they dont call me. They know My husband doesnt pay attention to the group texts and I've said before oh well if I had known we'd been here or there on time and why didnt someone tell me?? But guess what? It continues to go on. His sister was pregnant, having a girl and I've bought her tons of stuff. She didn't have anything because her son is 8 and she wasnt planning on having anymore kid. When I had my daughter, she helped me and gave me a lot. My daughter is 5 and I felt bad that I didnt have a lot of stuff to pass on to my sis in law, so I bought her everything new. She was super appreciative. I recently found morennewborn clothes on sale and got them all. I wanted her to be able to use them, so I took them over before the baby was born. I also told her several times that if she needed help with anything when she had the baby to call me. Im just hurt. She had her baby yesterday and in the middle of dinner my husband gets a text and said she had the baby. I go to get my phone thinking oh I cant wait to see her and nothing....I just feel hurt..I love all of my inlaws. I see them more than my own family as my family isnt that close. They are nice to me, they tell me they love me and I've never had one bad thing to say about them. They're always there if I need them for the most part- if they arent working. This may sound silly or maybe I'm overreacting or emotional. My hub and I have been ttc the past couple months- my inlaws DONT KNOW that. Not that we dont want to tell them, we just keep that to ourselves. Im currently in my 2 week wait, so idk if I am pregnant or if I'm just being emotional for no reason. My feelings are hurt. The icing on the cake was my husband called me this morning and said his sis called and would I go to her house and let her dog out to shit?? That's not a big deal, but why couldn't she ask me? It'd be nice to be included. Ive calmed down now, but am I overreacting?! I get people talk about people with their family or have certain things they keep between them and I dont expect them to text me every little thing, but when we miss an event I tell them every time to TEXT OR CALL ME, but it doesnt happen?