In literal shock...update

My SO and I have been together for 2 years. It’s been heaven. We get along so well. Our sex is amazing. Everything is perfect. Tonight I brought up sex toys. That could enhance our already mind blowing sex life. I suggested a cock ring and anal plug and he was on board. Then I suggested a vibrator and he absolutely flipped!!!!! Said he wasn’t good enough for me and I needed more and blah fucking blah. We were sitting on our patio and he turned his chair away from me until 10 min later he stormed inside and shut the door. What the fuck! I love this man! I don’t even look at porn I look at videos of us and he knows this. Why is he being so insecure? I love him so much!

***update - I am sitting outside our home in my car because he was laying in our bed refusing to talk to me and refusing to let me touch me. All over me having a vibrator. I am in shock.